How to Integrate Transitions to Feel Stable Ground Amid Life's Changes

This time of year is rich with transitions — kids returning to school and increased work demands that feel different than they did in the vacation-filled summer months. Then there is also the transition of seasons, the first hints of cooler weather and less morning and evening light. We can feel that seasonal change is coming. 

What is it like to notice these changes in your body? Are you energized and excited for change? Or is there a feeling of uncertainty? Do you feel stable and grounded? Or do you feel unsettled? What sensations in your body give you that information? 

We experience transitions all the time, some frequent and expected and others that completely rock our world and leave us feeling shaky. It is common for transitions to feel hard or a bit unsettling. Many of us like things to feel stable and familiar most of the time. Our nervous system is constantly searching for safety. One way that we can support our nervous system in feeling safe during a transition is to check in and spend a little time noticing how we feel. 

Slowing down and taking this time to check in with yourself allows you to integrate the changes that are happening. Things can move very rapidly in our present world, and move faster than the evolution of our body and nervous system. Pausing. Slowing down. Noticing. Taking time to allow yourself to adjust to what is happening now. All of these things can be really helpful with navigating transitions, big or small, with ease. 

Somatic Practice: Orienting for Awareness in the Present

Orienting is a simple practice that helps us be aware of where we are in the present moment. Our nervous system is always trying to keep us safe, and this practice reminds us that we have relative safety in the moment we are in. While it might seem overly simple, it really is a great way to support ourselves in being present.

Take 4 minutes to complete the orienting practice I’ll lead you through in the video, and see if your awareness of being in the present doesn’t leave you feeling more in balance.

How to Keep Up Your Summertime Workouts

Summertime can be a whirlwind of different schedules, kids’ activities, vacations and taking advantage of more daylight. It’s normal for workout routines to shift as you want to spend more time outside, and vacations can take you away from your normal routines.

If you struggle with consistency while traveling or with the change in summer schedule, here are some tips to support you in moving and feeling your best.

  • Learn what movement feels the best for your body and spend time doing that. It’s much harder to force yourself to exercise doing something you don’t enjoy. Exercise and movement should feel good in your body! You’ll naturally want to include it in your summer activities when they do.

  • Have a regular practice of a few simple exercises or stretches to support your health and well-being. A few minutes of movement will start your day off right, ease travel aches and pains and offer consistency with different schedules. Want help with this? I’m happy to design a program for you!

  • A little movement counts! Don’t have time for a full workout? Any movement is good! A few minutes of stretching or a few minutes of exercise is better than none!

  • Try going for a walk. Especially while traveling, walking is a great way to move your body and see some sights.

  • Join a virtual Pilates class while on vacation. If you’re used to in person Pilates, consider taking a virtual class to keep your Pilates practice consistent while you are away or have a different schedule.

Enjoy the different pace that this season brings and keep moving however feels good to you.